Show Notes:

1:02  2 games into the baseball season

1:20  As long as he gives 100% effort, the skills will come

1:40  1st goal of every game: have fun, give effort

2:20  Unfortunately, we're results based too often

3:00  It translates into the classroom

3:55  If your 100% effort is "C" work? I applaud you

4:30  Back to baseball practice last night...

5:10  The game ball went to the player who gave 100% effort EVERY game

5:30  Then I gave him the details of how he gave the effort

7:10  Don't talk about winning and losing

2:20  Don't talk about grades

2:30  Talk about effort

8:00  Don't focus on the results... focus on the process!

8:35  I'm not supposed to say or think this: you are my favorite

9:50  As a dad, I'm worried every day that I'm not doing this right

10:05  Outside confirmation makes me proud to be his father

Ryan Roy

Ryan's father abandoned him when he was only five years old. After getting married, his biggest fear was having a child and not knowing how to be a good dad. After studying everything he could find, writing a bestselling book, hosting 300 episodes of a popular parenting podcast, PLUS growing an immensely successful FBI Dads program at his own kids' school... Ryan has decided to share what he's learned. FBI Dads is Ryan's life mission. Ryan welcomes YOU to join him in this journey to help dads connect, be present and be a positive influence on their children.